Taking stress is an attitude reflecting in sex games if bright eyes miss deep penetration of awareness in their glance as does the mind in its projection. If this is the case, the following preparatory steps are sure going to help focus energy for the game before the actual game starts turning it into a laser-sharp awareness.

1. Are you familiar with each and every line and curve on your partner's face? Close your eyes and ask it to yourself. Register the image that comes in front of your mind's eye in the memory of your mind. Now open the eyes and look at the face intently. Check for the differences between the two. You will be surprised to note how little you knew about the details indicating how little you knew your partner. Repeat the procedure until the two pictures coincide. You will discover the beauty you had never done before.

2. What is your partner feeling like? Can you feel it? Yes, there IS a way. It's an interesting game. Imitate the shape of her/his lips on to yours and her/his visual expressions in her/his eyes into yours. You will immediately come to guess existentially what kind of feelings the other is going through. You will start feeling her/him from within her/himself. This deep penetration of awareness will also turn you more sensitive and vulnerable as well as turn your bright eyes into sparkling bright torches of light!

3. Are you feeling a chemical pull toward your partner? Or is it only a bio-sexual tension that wants to get a release with whosoever is there in front of you? Check it for yourself by closing your eyes and replacing your partner with someone else in your mind's eye. If the pull increases, stop playing with her/him and go for the other instead.

4. Are you interested in your partner’s body only or her/his total personality as such? How can you check? You can easily do that by denying to yourself her/his touch during the session and checking it for yourself if you still enjoy being with her/him as much as you would, had you not denied the touch to yourself. If you find there is a difference, don’t stress yourself and stop your sex games here to search for some other partner instead.

Once you steer clear through these playful challenges of deep penetration into awareness that you yourself posed in front of your bright eyes gone dull and your mind afflicted with stress, you will have qualified for moving on to the second set of preparatory steps before you jump into playing the sex games into their depth head on!

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Sexy lips come the next.

When it comes to turning sex games into real sexy games, bright eyes take the lead and then the lips follow behind.

How to turn lips sexy too like we turned eyes into two?

What are our lips up to when it comes to their being faced opposite their counterparts belonging to our partner in the game?

They obviously feel a pull toward each other in order to feel the touch that the other provides them with.

Shall we let them rush toward each other and satiate the urge as fast as possible?

If you gulp the cake down, you will no more be left with the cake!

But you want to eat your cake as well as to keep having it with you!

So wait before you eat the cake.

Let the two pairs of lips move toward each other, taking care that the eyes are seeing them clear even when they are on the verge of touching each other.

The moment you are able to do this right with your bright eyes being as sexy as they had learned to be, you will discover that the lips have gone slightly, but definitely, broader in their width as well as tighter in their grip over your gums especially over the canines and the molars - the upper as well as the lower one - in the process reducing their thickness in the entire width along!

You are getting prepared to eat your cake as well as have it too!

The entire skin on your face will have gone stretched UP and OUT in a highly refreshing and energetic way by now taking all your stress at least out of your face as you come up with your two sexy lips ready to turn your sex games that you are going to play with your partner into real sexy games.

Exchange breaths before you exchange the touch...

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Let's start with the sexy eyes innovation into sex games through sensitizing two pairs of bright eyes looking acute as well as deep into each other.

When eyes look deep, mind jumps out of all stress into it!

Mind it; we are not going to go skin deep only. Human depths are unfathomable, especially when it comes to the interaction between the two persons of opposite sexes who have decided to explore each other in their deepest depths possible.

How do we do that and with whom are we playing the game?

We need playing with someone we are intensely attracted to and have had no sexual history in the past as well as no sexual intentions in the future.

Difficult! Eh? But if you find one like that, consider yourself lucky!!

You are here with her/him in your very present with no strings attached.

The two pairs of eyes look into each other, and then very slowly start coming closer to each other.

The closer they come, the more attention you need in order to keep looking into them as clear as you were doing when they were positioned a little farther.

The more attention you need to keep looking into them clear, the brighter they turn with a sparkle of interest into them.

Bringing them still closer maintaining the same clarity of looking tends to bring your total self out of you through your eyes!

The sexy eyes that they would turn into, ushers in a new sensitivity for the sex games that the newly sensitized bright eyes are going to start playing with each other not only in the bodies but also in the minds of the two of you playing together!

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When third eye opens, bright eyes turn real beautiful eyes looking deep inside the stress... turning emotions into passion along.

They look deep into everything in fact.

As they look deep, the magic happens.

The magic that affects the other from deep inside, be it a person or be it the most disabling stress in the psyche.

Passion speaks the language that emotions don't understand and go perplexed.

But the perception receives the feeling putting all psychological fears at rest.

It's a real deep feeling that pierces into whatever comes its way whether it's petty or substantial.

The shape of the eyes changes along.

The lower eyelids get raised up on to the eyeball.

The eyebrows automatically stretch up and out.

The lips go a little stretched too.

The chin goes down stretching itself along.

The total face undergoes a facelift without any surgical operation done upon!

The eyes start shining with the passion that the mind has replaced the emotions with.

Everything goes beautiful... the world inside, the world out and the eyes wide open at the juncture between the two!

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Do I feel myself deep inside or am I skin deep only?

I play games with my bright eyes that tell me the depth of my feelings for myself as well as for the people and the situations I interact with.

On the surface lie emotions, which react to the stimuli in a way that causes strain for the body as well as for the mind.

It's in the emotional reaction to a stimulus that all the tensions of life make their abode.

Eyes immediately tell which emotional reaction my existence has fallen victim to.

Emotional eyes are neither healthy eyes nor are they beautiful eyes at all.

They don't know how to shine with the luster of interest in whatsoever presents itself to us in our life.

Since we live on surface, we cannot feel whatever comes to us from within it, and hence get scared of it.

It's this scare only that establishes itself as stress in the body and in the mind.

Only if we could have gone deeper!

The more we go deep inside ourselves, the more we feel the world around us from within.

Deep lies the passion!

How deep can we go inside our own self?

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We all live with the stress of a target in our life, dreaming for it with our bright eyes in the broad daylight.

Aim, goal, destination... these are all the words that define what we stand for.

Ask a hundred people what their aim in life is, and 99 out of 100 will give you a detailed blueprint of what they are going to do in order to fulfill their aim, achieve their goal or reach their destination.

Just look at their eyes when they are explaining it all to you, and you will find they are looking somewhere into their own mind dreaming of and planning for what they are going to do in future.

They are not looking at YOU!

How can we have a pair of two bright eyes on our face when they are not looking intently at what, or who, is there in front of them right now, here... at this very moment? They lose their sparkle very fast!

We don't look AT things; we keep looking into our own mind through what we are looking at!

And the mind never looks into the moment; it always keeps wandering here and there... either in the future or in the past without any bright eyes at its disposal.

1 out of the 100 that was left may tell you s/he doesn't have any target to fulfill in her/his life.

The rest 99 will pity this one, the one who doesn't have a direction for his actions to take shape in her/his life.

What will this person do in life?

Will s/he keep wandering aimless in life without doing anything worthwhile on this planet and die unsung of her/his achievements and fulfillment that s/he could have got registered in her/his name and been proud of them?

Alexander had his aim to win the world and he fulfilled it. Then he died with his eyes still hungry to win more...

What aim did Jesus have in his life? Was it to get crucified? I don't think any sane person can have THAT as an aim... and Jesus was much saner than we all here are!

He just lived his life without any stress, loving others with his shining bright eyes for what they were...

... And you just cannot love anyone unless you look AT her/him and not through her/him into your own mind as such!

One, who loves, looks at what s/he loves and not at the aims in her/his mind.

And it is only such a person who does something really worthwhile in life like Jesus did... and not anything worthless like Alexander did!

Every target that we have devoted our life to - be it of a person or be it of humanity - is a futile stress of running a rat race that just doesn't have any finish line on its track.

It's only the aimless love that shows us the right direction we should be heading to.

And the beauty of love is that it is always without any aim, without any motive behind it.

The moment we have an aim in mind to fulfill, we immediately stop loving and start running in a wrong direction that ultimately takes us nowhere but to our stress that we call THE MIND.

Love has no time to mind, no aim to follow, no stress to fall victim to, and no ambition to uphold.

Love only has the passion of joyfully walking hand in hand with the fellow human beings along... always in the right direction... since walking hand in hand with the fellow human beings along is the only worthwhile target in life on earth!

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The fear factor rules our life. We live with strange fears turning our bright eyes scary.

Scared eyes can very easily turn scary and they often do so with the passage of time through the journey of our life.

We have different kinds of fear that we all live our individual lives with.

We have fear of the dark.

We have fear of heights.

We have fear of flying.

We have fear of driving.

We have fear of public speaking.

We have fear of intimacy.

We have fear of being alone.

We have fear of snakes.

We have fear of failure.

We have fear of rejection.

We have fear of success.

We have fear of death.

We have fear of life.

We have all the funny as well as tragic types of fear that we are doomed to live our life with.

What causes fear?

Are psychological fears as real as real fears are?

And what is our deepest fear that we all humans live our life with all through the years of it we are alive for?

Is there a way to overcoming fear in life?

Can we live with no fear at all?

These are a few questions that we shall be dealing with in our next few posts to come regarding the basic fear factor including all the common and strange fears afflicting bright eyes with, since it is fear only that is the biggest stress in life, and we immediately need doing something about it if we want to live a quality life with a sparkling awe in our eyes.

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I miss you!

Missing you or missing money?

Our bright eyes go stressed and lose their brightness wearing a missing expression in them.

We always keep feeling like missing something in life which we don't know what!

But our entire subconscious always keeps searching for what we feel we are missing even if we don't know what it is that we are missing.

This futile search in itself is a big source of stress for our mind-body-spirit.

It stops us from living our life in the here and now.

And if we are not living in our here and now, we are simply dishonest.

How?

Say if I am talking to you but am not really listening to what you are saying without even subconsciously thinking about what I am missing, doesn't it make my interaction with you a superficial one?

Superficiality is dishonesty, which strains. Depth of focus is a joy that turns everything, we interact with, beautiful.

When eyes see beauty, they go beautiful as well!

You simply stop missing...

...There is nothing to miss; there is no one to miss!

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We all have a love calculator in our mind to match love horoscopes turning our bright eyes into those of a businessman trading love for everything in life.

We mistake love to be an emotion that desires; and that wants to get, possess and identify with what it desires.

We always keep calculating how much we love someone or how much someone loves us.

The most primitive calculator is a flower with its petals along with the keywords loves me... loves me not...!

Horoscopes are another 'big business' calculators that earn their biggest revenue from calculating love that one is going to get in life depending on how much one's stars are smiling at him or her.

We lack love in life and that is why we keep counting how much we have of it in our store of destiny.

We lack love because we want to get it.

Love is not an emotion. Wanting to get love IS!

If we WANT to get someone's love, we simply do not love the person since we are trying to steer her/his life according to our desires and not letting her/him be what s/he spontaneously is.

Not being spontaneous as well as not letting others be so is the root of all stress in life as well as all ugliness in the eyes.

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Games of desire are signs of stress that our mind games turn our bright eyes dull with.

Games people play in their minds and the games they play in their actions are not only petty but unhealthy also.

The pettiness instantaneously gets imprinted on the face as well as in the eyes telling its tale as avarice all over.

We very easily fall into the trap of desire.

Objects of desire do this to us.

But desire is an emotion and never the passion, showing as a craving in the eyes and never as a bright energy oozing out of them.

Craving eyes, along with lips, are squeezed inward from the sides that makes them peep inside (into the mind) more than look out straight on to the world around.

It's something like doing masturbation with someone whom you fancy in your mental world instead of going for the real sex with someone in the real world around.

Desire cuts us off from the reality of life and subjects our mind, body and eyes to a state of stressful mental hurry in whatever they do, alternating mental hurry with mental lethargy from time to time in between.

Craving eyes are ugly eyes.

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