Sex games require stress reduction by beating signs of stress through breaking the habit to raise the passion rolling the ball before the games themselves take the reins in their hands at a later stage once the passions have risen enough in such a balanced way that automatically beats the very root of stress, i.e., the immature emotion in the mind causing dullness in the bright eyes.
1. Check your mental hurry in whatever you do, be it eating, breathing, walking, writing, reading, talking, or any other action of yours. Why will you not do it in sex when you are doing it in all walks of your life? You will not want to spoil them. Is it? Hurry should not be confused with the swiftness in action. Hurry is always there in the mind that turns your action clumsy rather than swift. Take eating the very first. Can you play the game of not being in a hurry to gulp down the morsel in your mouth and enjoy it there leisurely as much as you can? You will be elated to have discovered a new avenue of enjoyment in your life!
Breathing can be the next in order. Watch your breathing! Every emotion has its own peculiar breathing pattern, and the more you observe your breathing the more you understand your emotions causing stress in your mind and clumsiness in your actions. Sooner than later breathing as such will become a source of enjoyment for you - very much conducive to the cool sex that you are going to practice - and the hurry will have taken the back seat in your car of your life!
2. The 180 degree opposite to hurry is lethargy in life as well as in the sex performance. It reflects in every walk of life like eating, breathing, walking, writing, reading, talking, or any other action of yours. Again do not confuse lethargy with the leisurely performance of an action. Doing what you are really interested in seems to be the break-through into this ugly pattern of stress, and what better break-through can there be than sex that almost everyone is so much interested in? The very interest turns into the intent letting you be interested in whatever you are doing whether you like it or not!
3. Can you carry a glass of water filled to its brim swiftly without spilling a single drop out of it? You cannot until you make yourself interested in doing the same without either being lethargic or in hurry, which requires focusing your total intent on to the action without any stress including handling a live body in the game that you are going to play in order to spontaneously build up the graph.
4. Picking up the utensils in a kitchen taking care not to make a single sound as well as keeping them back again without making any sound balances your body and your actions as a preparation to the games of sex that you are going to play without any stressful imbalance in both, which in turn will skyrocket the same exponentially on its own.
5. Here is a technical innovation that you can use in order to inculcate control in your body and your actions for the sake of the games you are supposed to play without any stress and with your full control over them. A thick copper wire is fixed between two ends. A ring just a size bigger than the thickness of the wire circling it is supposed to pass through it without touching it on its way through its length. The ring is connected to one point of a remote switch operating a cordless remote bell whereas the copper wire fixed between two ends is connected to the other point of the switch. Switch the power on and pass the ring over he wire through its length. In case the two - the ring and the wire touch each other, the bell will start ringing as you are taking the ring over the wire. Do not let the bell ring and you will have started inculcating control in your personality, which will get its reinforcement automatically once the games take over the preparatory exercises done for rolling the ball.
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