Taking stress is an attitude reflecting in sex games if bright eyes miss deep penetration of awareness in their glance as does the mind in its projection. If this is the case, the following preparatory steps are sure going to help focus energy for the game before the actual game starts turning it into a laser-sharp awareness.
1. Are you familiar with each and every line and curve on your partner's face? Close your eyes and ask it to yourself. Register the image that comes in front of your mind's eye in the memory of your mind. Now open the eyes and look at the face intently. Check for the differences between the two. You will be surprised to note how little you knew about the details indicating how little you knew your partner. Repeat the procedure until the two pictures coincide. You will discover the beauty you had never done before.
2. What is your partner feeling like? Can you feel it? Yes, there IS a way. It's an interesting game. Imitate the shape of her/his lips on to yours and her/his visual expressions in her/his eyes into yours. You will immediately come to guess existentially what kind of feelings the other is going through. You will start feeling her/him from within her/himself. This deep penetration of awareness will also turn you more sensitive and vulnerable as well as turn your bright eyes into sparkling bright torches of light!
3. Are you feeling a chemical pull toward your partner? Or is it only a bio-sexual tension that wants to get a release with whosoever is there in front of you? Check it for yourself by closing your eyes and replacing your partner with someone else in your mind's eye. If the pull increases, stop playing with her/him and go for the other instead.
4. Are you interested in your partner’s body only or her/his total personality as such? How can you check? You can easily do that by denying to yourself her/his touch during the session and checking it for yourself if you still enjoy being with her/him as much as you would, had you not denied the touch to yourself. If you find there is a difference, don’t stress yourself and stop your sex games here to search for some other partner instead.
Once you steer clear through these playful challenges of deep penetration into awareness that you yourself posed in front of your bright eyes gone dull and your mind afflicted with stress, you will have qualified for moving on to the second set of preparatory steps before you jump into playing the sex games into their depth head on!
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