Dress for success is a straight jacket that we wear with positive thinking in our mind.

Straightjackets never let us be easy in life. They are very tight to wear.

We no more are able to move our body and mind very freely in space and time.

We get so busy learning how to be successful in life that we are left with no time to learn how to live life as such.

Our eyes don't see any beauty around since they are too busy dreaming of success far ahead.

Bright eyes turn into dreaming eyes thus!

In reality if we see, the whole philosophy of success is hoax.

The ladder to success leads to nowhere in the end.

The very concept of success is a cancer of humanity.

First of all, we very cunningly assumed the ownership of as many things as possible on earth, and now we are in a great hurry to expand our empire as fast as possible.

It stresses us a lot.

Our bodies and minds have gone rigidified in the straightjacket that our culture has forced us to wear and respect.

Stupid we... who don't know that success sucks!

And it sucks a lot!!

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Fear (negative thinking) generates dreams (positive thinking) turning mind into dream box of stress.

We avoid pain that we are scared of, and invite pleasure that we always crave for.

In both the cases, we have severed our connection with reality.

Our psyche gets torn in two contradictory fragments always fighting with reality outside as well as with each other inside.

This psychic fighting is what stress can be defined as in its basic essence.

Reality is natural.

Stress is unnatural.

Pain is not stress. Avoiding pain IS.

Lack of pleasure is not stress. Inviting pleasure IS.

Going against nature is stress, whether it is nature outside in the world or it is nature inside in our psyche.

Nature is spontaneous both outside as well as inside including our bright eyes along!

What is spontaneous is always effortless.

All effort is stress.

Where is this line of logic (rather insight!) going to lead us to?

Let's keep building further into it...

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Positive thinking stresses us playing the games of desire along forcing values morals ethics in our psyche.

Now, the two are opposite in nature and stand as reactions to each other.

At times we call this reaction pro-action.

Pro-action is not an independent, spontaneous action. It's only a positive reaction that has been assigned a lot of respect in our competitive world, especially that of business. A proactive action is considered to be the most desirable business approach.

Pro-action is reaction, exactly as our business on this planet is too! But about business, we will talk sometime later. Right now it is proactive attitude that concerns us as far as stress in the mind, in the body and in our bright eyes turning them dull is concerned.

Desires are generated as a reaction to the moral nailing that was hammered on to our psyche as we came to our senses in life.

This moral nailing was a reaction in its own stead to the fear of negative thinking, which by itself was a reaction to the pain experienced by us in the hands of our basic instinctual drives...

... Aren't we living our life in a world fallen victim to chain reactions all around us?

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Now, positive thinking is a bigger stress than negative thinking is.

Bright eyes never think positive.

They just see. And when they see, they don't think. Neither positive nor negative! That is what makes us into a 'seer'.

Jesus was a seer. He saw what others didn't. He could do so only because he was not a positive thinker, nor was he a negative.

We have yet to have a human on earth who has her/his eyes as bright as Jesus had.

He saw with his bright eyes whatever it was, and didn't attach any positive or negative tags to it.

We do. We attach tags to what we see whether positive or negative.

Why do we do so?

...Because we want it to be positive!

Again, why?

...Because we are scared of its being negative!

What scares us?

Our past! Our past has been negative and we are scared of it repeating itself in our future.

Our future scares us, pushing us into negative thinking.

We plan action for our past not to repeat itself in our future, and then hope for our plans to come successful.

It is this hope only which we call positive thinking and which has taken its birth from the womb of our scare from our past.

Scare is the mother of hope. If one is not scared, one never needs any hope in life.

Negative thinking is the mother of positive thinking. If one doesn't think negative, one never needs thinking positive in life.

Every positive thinker is essentially a negative thinker.

Thinking is a great tool at our disposal, which we have corrupted through adulterating with either positive or negative tags attached to it.

When our bright eyes 'see', we only think about what they are seeing. We don't think past. We don't think future. We just think what we perceive and act accordingly.

But when we are scared of seeing the way things are, we project our dreams on to them assigning extra importance to our projections.

Our sight goes blurred as our bright eyes go dull.

How many people can you count around you who either never used spectacles to see whether near or far, or shall never use them as reading glasses as they enter their forties?

None of us has that streak of luster in our eyes that makes them so healthy, so beautiful and so much at peace!

Our thinking no more leads to action, but only to reaction as it gets tagged with either positive or negative.

Negative comes first, scaring our soul; and then comes positive, turning us into dreamers, masking the negative reaction with another new reaction that we call positive.

Negative reaction was only one step into stress, but the positive has to take two of them into it. One, to mask the stress of negative reaction and the second, to maintain itself against the stress of what the reality threatens it with.

Our life turns as complex as our complexes themselves are!

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Positive thinking is a stress that turns our bright eyes dull.

Critical thinking and creative thinking suffer a setback as society teaches us how to think positive.

Why do we need thinking positive at all?

...Because in our ignorance we think we should think something of positive value that we are not naturally inclined to!

Or else we have already turned our thinking negative in an unnatural way, and the pursuit of thinking positive comes as a corrective measure to compensate for the wrong done to us by our own self!

In fact both the things mentioned above in the two preceding sentences are correct 50% each.

Let's take the second one first.

What has turned our thinking negative?

And can thinking positive undo the harms that are inflicted on our mind by this demon called negative thinking, or does it complicate the matter further?

What do we mean by negative thinking at all?

We shall go further deep into it...

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Wishful thinking leading to 'thinking maps of positive thinking' as opposed to critical thinking is what we take shelter in.

Our bright eyes no more remain bright; rather go wishfully seeking for what was denied to us.

Rather than appreciating the beauty of what is giving us joy, they start dreaming of what would give us joy.

We, for the first time, take shelter in our wishful future, only since the present has gone frustrating.

Turning sensually insensitive initiates the birth of a new domain in our psyche as if to compensate for what was denied to the sensitivity, and thus turning us sensitive in a new distorted way.

The new distorted way is that of emotional sensitivity.

The more we turn sensually insensitive, the more we go emotionally sensitive.

The energy that gave us life shifts its abode from the body and the brain to a new hypothetical construction that we start calling the mind.

Brain thinks in action and perception. Mind thinks in wishful patterns springing out of a frustrating past and dreaming of a satiating future.

The thrust of our energy shifts from 'perceiving' and 'doing' to 'thinking to do' that is the biggest stress in itself as such.

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'Tears for fears'... 'No fear no tear', just like 'No avarice no vice'!

And we call them positive thinking versus negative thinking!

Whom are we fooling if not our own self on this planet?

In fact fear and greed are the two basic emotions humanity has got afflicted with. All the rest of them are just their more complex derivatives only.

In order to justify our unethical corporate culture that humanity has created, we try to rationalize our greed assigning to it a very romantic name of positive attitudes in the personality.

We even offer a lot many positive attitude tips to encourage that never-ending greed in our psyches. "No avarice no vice" has been limited to be a proverbial slogan only.

All Avarice All Vices

We have not yet gone very much different from the four-legged animals who live their entire life in a perpetual swing between fear and greed though their fears and greed like those of a human child are more instinctive in nature and hence not as harmful as they have come to be in human adults.

Fear is more basic an emotion than greed - in fact greed is just the anti-thesis of fear acting as a defense mechanism against it - and it is very clear when we watch how animals behave. They don't have bright eyes on their faces, they either have them scared or they have the violent eyes with them and they cannot do anything about it since they have no gray matter to deal with the holes or gaps left in the evolutionary process of animate existence on earth.

"Tears for fears" is the rule of the jungle.

Tears for fears

But humans - despite their superior brain structure at their behest that otherwise could have realized the creative state of no fear no tear - have turned double standard people trying to suppress (not remove!) their fears aka negative attitudes masking them with artificial confidence aka positive attitudes.

No Fear No Tear

The poor creatures - that we are - don't know that negative attitude is more basic an element of animate psyche than positive attitude is.

But our ego doesn't let us accept the fact as it is, hence we try to suppress or even repress it by wearing an artificial mask of confidence aka positive thinking over and above our more basic fears aka negative thinking, trying to hide it as much as we can.

Positive Thinking: Stupid Thinking

It tires us badly. It turns us aggressive. It turns us violent. It turns us ambitious.

We all want God to shower His grace on OUR home only... or at least MORE than the rest around us!

It not only affects the social fabric that we are to share with one another, it also affects our very personal biological selves inflicting us with seven chakras in our individual bodies including the third eye chakra and the crown chakra turning our bright eyes not only dull but dirty as well!

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