Sex problems are very closely related to the signs of stress turning bright eyes dull. The two are in fact the replica of each other, so we do need setting our sex life in order if we really want to tackle with stress as well as the dullness in our eyes.

1. The first is the problem of premature ejaculation in males. If so, the insertion should be suspended temporarily making body-to-body contact and foreplay the final target of the game keeping the excitation at a constant level. As the performance fear goes, also goes along the anxiety associated with it which is the first step toward treating not only the premature ejaculation but also the stress in life along with the dullness in the eyes. This relaxed attitude tends to cure both in the due course of time.

2. The female partner sometimes feels pain upon insertion. At times it tends to turn into a continuously repeating pattern adding woes not only to the sex life but also to the life in general, it being indicative of turning oneself closed to any outside stimulus. Again avoiding insertion while keeping the excitation continuously up at a constant level is the key to developing an active state of relaxation that tends to cure the problem sooner than later.

3. Impotence of the male partner is a depressing problem that has its very close counterpart in the normal life as detachment from action. Again simply enjoying the body-warmth of your partner without expecting to perform at all is always taken care by nature and the problem reverses faster than expected.

4. Vaginismus in females is the next stop after painful insertion, which categorizes itself very close to impotence in men. Again, avoiding the insertion and maintaining the constancy of excitation through creative maneuvering does the needful to cure the problem.

Sex problems and signs of stress turning bright eyes dull must always be seen as the two sides of the same coin and the treatment procedure should always take care to make a bridge between the two!

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Sex games of energy not only require physical fitness but free energy of awareness also!

Sexual excitation imparts this energy to the mind along with the sparkle of a laser-like focus to the bright eyes in order to beat stress at its very root where it takes its birth. Only the mind should be able to hold it in. The more the excitation, the more the energy summoned up in the mind turning it highly aware of everything around! But alas, the mind also cannot keep it held up after a certain habitual threshold and falls into the trap of losing its awareness by getting discharged at a ridiculously low level.

Emotions prepare this trap for the mind keeping the energy of passion inhibited turning our mind energy-less through blurring the focus of its attention at one single point of action.

The mind must know how to retain passion as it gets filled with tremendous amounts of energy when it tends to focus on the joy of sexual excitation. For this purpose we need training its awareness in its sensual perception taking them all, one at a time.

1. Do you feel the touch of your breath when you take it in? ... And also when you take it out? Sit quiet and feel the both passing through your nostrils to your lungs and back; and before long your mind will start to calm down increasing its awareness manifolds!

2. Give a soft touch to one of your own body parts. Where do you feel the touch - in the body part only or in your hands as well? Feel both the touches simultaneously and you will have increased your awareness tremendously!

3. This time give a soft touch to an inanimate object. Your hand is sensing the touch of the object. Now can you imagine transforming into the object yourself, feeling the touch of your hand as well? A great awareness booster!

4. Do you feel the touch of others' hands while shaking hands with them? And while doing so, can you also feel the touch of your own hand from the perspective of others? Do it and increase your awareness!

5. Undress yourself and sit in a chair. Feel the touch between the body and the chair. Are both the buttocks exerting equal pressure on the seat? You will discover it not to be so. Equalize the two, re-equalizing f overdone to either of the sides. Before long you will find yourself sliding in a tranquil state of mind, which is going to be highly aware of everything around.

The technique belongs to Tibet from where spiritual practitioners brought it to the world outside from inside that idyllic Shangri-La!

6. Mentally scan your body to find if it is having any sensation of an itch in any part of it. Surprisingly you will always find it in some part or the other. As you do, observe it there without scratching it at all. In a few moments it will disappear over there only to raise its head in another part of the body. Keep observing without doing anything and increase your awareness as much as you want!

7. The process of seeing is that of sensing the contrast between the object to be seen and the background around. The background can either be lighter or else darker than the object. I n both the cases can you see the background around the object appearing lighter (or darker, as the case may be) than the rest of the background. The object will start appearing darker (or lighter, as the case may be) than it did before.

This increases the visual awareness in a real effective way!

8. Hear the sounds falling into your ears, all together, as many as you can and you will wonder as to how large their number is, which you never paid attention to.

You will greatly increase your auditory awareness by this maneuver.

9. Have you ever tried to smell a stone? Yes, almost everything smells although it may do so much less in some things than the rest. Try smelling everything that you easily can and you will have developed a proverbial educated nose raising the level of your awareness beyond bounds!

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Sex games require stress reduction by beating signs of stress through breaking the habit to raise the passion rolling the ball before the games themselves take the reins in their hands at a later stage once the passions have risen enough in such a balanced way that automatically beats the very root of stress, i.e., the immature emotion in the mind causing dullness in the bright eyes.

1. Check your mental hurry in whatever you do, be it eating, breathing, walking, writing, reading, talking, or any other action of yours. Why will you not do it in sex when you are doing it in all walks of your life? You will not want to spoil them. Is it? Hurry should not be confused with the swiftness in action. Hurry is always there in the mind that turns your action clumsy rather than swift. Take eating the very first. Can you play the game of not being in a hurry to gulp down the morsel in your mouth and enjoy it there leisurely as much as you can? You will be elated to have discovered a new avenue of enjoyment in your life!

Breathing can be the next in order. Watch your breathing! Every emotion has its own peculiar breathing pattern, and the more you observe your breathing the more you understand your emotions causing stress in your mind and clumsiness in your actions. Sooner than later breathing as such will become a source of enjoyment for you - very much conducive to the cool sex that you are going to practice - and the hurry will have taken the back seat in your car of your life!

2. The 180 degree opposite to hurry is lethargy in life as well as in the sex performance. It reflects in every walk of life like eating, breathing, walking, writing, reading, talking, or any other action of yours. Again do not confuse lethargy with the leisurely performance of an action. Doing what you are really interested in seems to be the break-through into this ugly pattern of stress, and what better break-through can there be than sex that almost everyone is so much interested in? The very interest turns into the intent letting you be interested in whatever you are doing whether you like it or not!

3. Can you carry a glass of water filled to its brim swiftly without spilling a single drop out of it? You cannot until you make yourself interested in doing the same without either being lethargic or in hurry, which requires focusing your total intent on to the action without any stress including handling a live body in the game that you are going to play in order to spontaneously build up the graph.

4. Picking up the utensils in a kitchen taking care not to make a single sound as well as keeping them back again without making any sound balances your body and your actions as a preparation to the games of sex that you are going to play without any stressful imbalance in both, which in turn will skyrocket the same exponentially on its own.

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Taking stress is an attitude reflecting in sex games if bright eyes miss deep penetration of awareness in their glance as does the mind in its projection. If this is the case, the following preparatory steps are sure going to help focus energy for the game before the actual game starts turning it into a laser-sharp awareness.

1. Are you familiar with each and every line and curve on your partner's face? Close your eyes and ask it to yourself. Register the image that comes in front of your mind's eye in the memory of your mind. Now open the eyes and look at the face intently. Check for the differences between the two. You will be surprised to note how little you knew about the details indicating how little you knew your partner. Repeat the procedure until the two pictures coincide. You will discover the beauty you had never done before.

2. What is your partner feeling like? Can you feel it? Yes, there IS a way. It's an interesting game. Imitate the shape of her/his lips on to yours and her/his visual expressions in her/his eyes into yours. You will immediately come to guess existentially what kind of feelings the other is going through. You will start feeling her/him from within her/himself. This deep penetration of awareness will also turn you more sensitive and vulnerable as well as turn your bright eyes into sparkling bright torches of light!

3. Are you feeling a chemical pull toward your partner? Or is it only a bio-sexual tension that wants to get a release with whosoever is there in front of you? Check it for yourself by closing your eyes and replacing your partner with someone else in your mind's eye. If the pull increases, stop playing with her/him and go for the other instead.

4. Are you interested in your partner’s body only or her/his total personality as such? How can you check? You can easily do that by denying to yourself her/his touch during the session and checking it for yourself if you still enjoy being with her/him as much as you would, had you not denied the touch to yourself. If you find there is a difference, don’t stress yourself and stop your sex games here to search for some other partner instead.

Once you steer clear through these playful challenges of deep penetration into awareness that you yourself posed in front of your bright eyes gone dull and your mind afflicted with stress, you will have qualified for moving on to the second set of preparatory steps before you jump into playing the sex games into their depth head on!

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Sex games can be the best carriers of free energy of the cosmos also known as cosmic energy that turns our life energetic and free from any stress in it. The only thing to be kept in mind is that that the games must facilitate providing a passionate and continued focus of your excited attention on to them for an indefinite period of time without the excitation weaning off at all throughout the period of the game.

How to do it?

The graph must go on building up from the moment the partners set in the game to play. If it ever comes steady or else falling down, the whole purpose of the game is lost. The purpose is summoning the extremely high levels of energy into the body during the course of the game.

A higher energy level corresponds to a laser-like focus of the sparkling bright eyes and a deeply involved mind. Once you can achieve that beyond a certain threshold, your body mind system permanently jumps into it never to come back again in the world of tensions, worries, and indulgences.

To maintain the graph rising through an increasing level of passion throughout the game requires a little preparation on the part of both the partners together. These are not the exercises to be performed once and then forgotten for ever. Rather, they should become an integral part of your life all through 24x7!

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Sexy lips come the next.

When it comes to turning sex games into real sexy games, bright eyes take the lead and then the lips follow behind.

How to turn lips sexy too like we turned eyes into two?

What are our lips up to when it comes to their being faced opposite their counterparts belonging to our partner in the game?

They obviously feel a pull toward each other in order to feel the touch that the other provides them with.

Shall we let them rush toward each other and satiate the urge as fast as possible?

If you gulp the cake down, you will no more be left with the cake!

But you want to eat your cake as well as to keep having it with you!

So wait before you eat the cake.

Let the two pairs of lips move toward each other, taking care that the eyes are seeing them clear even when they are on the verge of touching each other.

The moment you are able to do this right with your bright eyes being as sexy as they had learned to be, you will discover that the lips have gone slightly, but definitely, broader in their width as well as tighter in their grip over your gums especially over the canines and the molars - the upper as well as the lower one - in the process reducing their thickness in the entire width along!

You are getting prepared to eat your cake as well as have it too!

The entire skin on your face will have gone stretched UP and OUT in a highly refreshing and energetic way by now taking all your stress at least out of your face as you come up with your two sexy lips ready to turn your sex games that you are going to play with your partner into real sexy games.

Exchange breaths before you exchange the touch...

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Let's start with the sexy eyes innovation into sex games through sensitizing two pairs of bright eyes looking acute as well as deep into each other.

When eyes look deep, mind jumps out of all stress into it!

Mind it; we are not going to go skin deep only. Human depths are unfathomable, especially when it comes to the interaction between the two persons of opposite sexes who have decided to explore each other in their deepest depths possible.

How do we do that and with whom are we playing the game?

We need playing with someone we are intensely attracted to and have had no sexual history in the past as well as no sexual intentions in the future.

Difficult! Eh? But if you find one like that, consider yourself lucky!!

You are here with her/him in your very present with no strings attached.

The two pairs of eyes look into each other, and then very slowly start coming closer to each other.

The closer they come, the more attention you need in order to keep looking into them as clear as you were doing when they were positioned a little farther.

The more attention you need to keep looking into them clear, the brighter they turn with a sparkle of interest into them.

Bringing them still closer maintaining the same clarity of looking tends to bring your total self out of you through your eyes!

The sexy eyes that they would turn into, ushers in a new sensitivity for the sex games that the newly sensitized bright eyes are going to start playing with each other not only in the bodies but also in the minds of the two of you playing together!

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Sex games using innovative sexual positions can very effectively abolish stress in the body and mind as well as sensitize the two very, very deep transferring the depth to a sparkling focus in the bright eyes that - being the windows to the mind - stand midway between the two.

It's not for nothing that the entire world is gone crazy after sex so much.

The only problem in this going crazy is that one can very easily get swayed by the stormy currents that this powerful force in life is made up of.

Only if one can maintain one's discipline in the very midst of this highly indulging game of life, can one become the master of almost all the powers that life has in its bag to bestow upon us!

The biggest danger is that of getting addicted to the pleasure that this powerful faculty provides to us as a gift.

The second danger is that of distorting the game altogether in our impatience to reach of the pleasure as early as possible. The more we act greedy, the less goes the pleasure.

The less goes the pleasure, the slower turns the game!

In both the cases, whether fast or slow, the body and the mind just lose the sensitivity not only to play the game but also to live the life, which falls prey to the onslaughts of stress as easily as it fell prey to the addiction of sex.

In the next few posts to come, I will be dealing with an insight into the innovations of sex games not only as the manifestations of the static sexual positions of the body movements together, but as a dynamic graph of the sexual energies between the two seeking souls... those who with their bright eyes are seeking the sensitive and sane ways of energy wherever it can take them to!

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When it comes to studying sexual positions in the body, Kama Sutra positions stand as the most sought after ones throughout the world.

There are various of them illustrated with descriptions in the scripture, of which the more popular ones are animal positions, alternate yawning position, clasping position, cow position, crab position, fixing-a-nail position, half-pressed position, herd-of-cows position, Indrani position, lotus Position, mare's position, packed position, pair-of-tongs position, pressed position, pressing position, rising position, spinning position, splitting-a-bamboo position, supported position, suspended position, swing position, turning position, twining position, united position, widely open position, woman acting male position and yawning position.

There are others, e.g. Ananga Ranga, Chandamaharosana, Sex Handbook of Dark Girl, Secrets of the Plain Girl et cetera.

The purpose of all these positions has basically been facilitating sex by sensitizing the bodies of the two partners while having sex together.

If the bodies are not sensitized, sex goes mechanical with all the kinds of sex problems that the world is wrestling with right now all through.

But then, sex only has the power to bring us out of our mechanical stupor in the easiest way as well!

Only if we do not adopt the sexual positions mechanically, be those the Kama Sutra positions or any other for that matter!

Only if we let the magical power of sex run through our bright eyes to the entire body in its fullness and do its magic full!

How to let it happen so? And how do we obstruct its path that it gets limited to the petty lust arousing our genitals only?

We need learning all that in detail, all that either causes stress in our body mind system or else is a result of it.

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When third eye opens, bright eyes turn real beautiful eyes looking deep inside the stress... turning emotions into passion along.

They look deep into everything in fact.

As they look deep, the magic happens.

The magic that affects the other from deep inside, be it a person or be it the most disabling stress in the psyche.

Passion speaks the language that emotions don't understand and go perplexed.

But the perception receives the feeling putting all psychological fears at rest.

It's a real deep feeling that pierces into whatever comes its way whether it's petty or substantial.

The shape of the eyes changes along.

The lower eyelids get raised up on to the eyeball.

The eyebrows automatically stretch up and out.

The lips go a little stretched too.

The chin goes down stretching itself along.

The total face undergoes a facelift without any surgical operation done upon!

The eyes start shining with the passion that the mind has replaced the emotions with.

Everything goes beautiful... the world inside, the world out and the eyes wide open at the juncture between the two!

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